friendship

 it's soo long since i wrote the last post..and..yes,since solihin had complain that it's been like months that i'm not active...so ni la nk cecite nie....

xtaw la nk tles ape dah but since aritu MUET kuar soalan pasal frienship..so i guess that will be the right topic for this post..okay...

THE MOST VALUABLE THING IN LIFE IS FRIENDSHIP...DO YOU AGREE??

oleh itu...once i read the question,confidently i drew a mind map on the points of agreement with the statement..punyala karang sampai 2 muke surat for all 3 points that i have..but, frankly,i don't have really strong points..my only points are:

1. a friend in need is a friend indeed n pndai2x la relate
2. friendship last forever bla3x
3. friendship teach us many thing and make us stronger

punyela ber 'berchenta' merapu berkajang kajang smpai 50 mins..BUT,actually,i don't really happy with my points as i can give stronger points..tp layan jela kn da name pon exam..so,everything pon on the spot la kn..n as well as the fact that i don't write for such a log time and i'm sure i have lost my talent in writing..even my vocab became worse...sabar je la..tula..blaja dulu tyme spm sbb nk exam kn..ni bila da lame2x sume pon lupe ye mufidah??

So,here what is friendship is basically??i'm confused too as friendship is way too general and can be ambiguous.and seriously i don't really get the exact meaning of friendship..it just because some of my friends called it under the name of friendship when two opposite sex get closed and have the very special feeling..or friendship is just the relation between friends??

owh..how i don't know to answer the question...but i'm extremely agree with my 3rd point that friendship makes us stronger if to put myself in the context..i have a lot of friends all over malaysia but some of them are very close to me and some are not..some just fill the friend title just as a name to show that i just know their name.but,i don't really treat them as the real friend is-yea,to share problems etc as i say b4,a friend in need is a friend indeed.but,making friends with a lot of people make me become matured to really know which one is a friend or an enemy!!

in my life,i have many bitter sweet memories of friendship..i had a best friend that i'm closed to since i was 7 until i was 11.we used to sit beside each other in class and we had the same hobbies and interest even same height..but after that,i moved to another school and we lost contact,to be separated for years..and only after years,i met him again the past few months as we are in the same university..but sadly,we can't even have a good conversation and we just don't feel like continuing the friendship all over again..so,here,is this considered as friendship as my 2nd point agree that friendship last forever..and similarly,a had many best friends before but our relationship end to an end when we were separated!!i even know nothing about my used-to-be- best friends..

next, a good friend of mine was once the one i hate the most and we used to backbiting each other and yet we became good friend at last..so,if true that friendship is a valuable thing in my life,i won't take my enemy as my good friend..it will be better to have a relationship with someone that we are happy with since the beginning rather than to have it with our own enemy...

i also made friend with someone when i'm in desperate situation where i really need someone to be beside me..so,here i rather think that i'm not honest to befriend with her as i just need her for my good  and without trust and faith,the true definition of friend..

moreover,i also make friends with people that can get along with me best..that have the same habits,interests,acts etc..if it is true that friendship cares nothing..i will not only find someone which is similar to me to be my friend but the difference will be a perfect criteria as a friend will complete the other friend..

so,it depends on everyone to judge friendship as i don't have the answer scheme for this question..