Err da lama rasanya tak menulis apa2(bkn rasa2 lagi mmg hakikat)..Sampai nak buat ayat simple pun da terbelit2..duhh..makin tua gini la jadiknya..huhu..segalanya kian berkurang : ingatan,tahap kesihatan, kecerdasan mental dan fizikal, kepetahan berbicara,ketegangan kulit, berat(hooh menipu kalau makin turun) pendek kata semuanya..hanya satu yg semakin bertambah = usia..YES usia a.k.a umur..
Terlanjur mengetik ni, mau share sebuah hakikat yg rata2 ramai org sudah sedia maklum..pertambahan umur tidak beerti kematangan seseorang itu bertambah seiring umurnya..DAN yg paling menjadi persoalan disini ialah bagaimana seseorang itu boleh dikatakan matang..confirm tiap individu punya definisi sendiri terhadap istilah matang ataupun matured..so tergantung pada individu terbabit mahu menjadi matang di mata sendiri ataupun orang lain.
For example, a girl who lived in a moderate level of economy and the eldest among few siblings will be matured through and through her life ever since she was a kid, a teen and finally adult. She grew up maturely due to her surprising environment. Staying with grandparents who partial the love among other grandchildren(during the day). Deciding something on her own judgement and experience with no help from adults. Listening to babbling and nags patiently and (babbling only not scolding). Observing love and respect towards elders. And so many things that never have been taught at school.
Physically, she is just simply like other girls at her age. Sometimes she looks juvenile due to her appearance and behavior with kids but mentally she IS matured. Everybody (elders) never expect that unless they have a chat with her (practically proven).
Ok that’s it as a brief example.
Seseorang yang matang bukan beerti dia tiada lagi istilah “kebudak-budakan” dalam hidupnya tetapi dia tahu waktu yang tepat untuk menjadi seorang yang matang dan juga bila masanya perlu menjadi kebudak-budakan.
